TEXT; 001 - locked from laurent
[Faolan is definitely not the sort of person to use the network, not even to respond to it never mind to post to it. But desperate times call for desperate measures, and certainly this is a desperate time indeed.
How do people even usually address posts on this thing? He goes through the last month or so of them before giving up and just flying by the seat of his pants.
You don't even know how many times he rewrote this thing in the first place.]
Let's say, hypothetically speaking, that there was something quite expensive that you had wanted very much, and that someone purchased that something for you when they really didn't have to. Let's say that you could never hope to come up with the money to pay them back in full, but you would like to do something comparable for them for the holidays.
What would you do in such a situation?
[Help him, Retrospec,you're his only hope he desperately needs some advice here.]
How do people even usually address posts on this thing? He goes through the last month or so of them before giving up and just flying by the seat of his pants.
Let's say, hypothetically speaking, that there was something quite expensive that you had wanted very much, and that someone purchased that something for you when they really didn't have to. Let's say that you could never hope to come up with the money to pay them back in full, but you would like to do something comparable for them for the holidays.
What would you do in such a situation?
[Help him, Retrospec,
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But what about yourself? I know you're doing this for him, but there should be something for you to enjoy, too.
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That's why I'm hoping to come up with something good. The idea is that I find something he really appreciates, so that his appreciation of course is my reward.
It's easier said than done though of course. It means that I can't just settle on anything that might be 'good enough'.
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Mm well, are there any foods that he likes? You could set up an evening together with his favorite book, foods, and drinks, plus your company.
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Oh, well. There's an option, yeah. I mean, I don't really know his favorite books, but. Perhaps his favorite music? Music in general? Certainly an evening of good food and drink and music wouldn't go amiss.
[His self-esteem is far too meager to even think of mentioning his company as a positive as well so he lets it go, for now.]
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Yes, that sounds lovely to me! Sometimes the best evenings are the ones where you get to relax with all your favorite things.
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Let's just hope that this instance will be for the right reasons.
[And not because he's spilled wine down his front or set the house on fire.]
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You'll do fine, okay? Just be confident.