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Dazai Osamu ([personal profile] thesettingsun) wrote in [community profile] retrospec2018-05-09 05:40 pm

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hey so quick question
how do I explain why I bleed ink to my boyfriend

-yes he's already seen it
-I was cutting up vegetables and scratched a finger
-it'd be great if someone could give advice relatively soon because I don't know how long 'I need to lie down and then I'll talk to you about it' will work, he's still panicking he's just not demanding an answer right this second

thanks for the help
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-13 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Covering it up, though, may hurt him more. Trying to cover up who you are is not being honest with yourself either. What is normal for one person, may not be what's normal for another, so in reality...it's not really something that should be considered....

Plus, if you're dishonest, it's possible you could lose him. You don't want that, right?
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-14 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
hm...even if he forgot or had some amnesia, i feel that maybe you should still try to explain the truth to him. something that may help you is writing down what you'd like to say. it will gather your thoughts!
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-17 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
hm, i suppose that's a good point, so it's hard to make a decision that way. normal is a hard thing to define too.

i know that when i write things down, it helps me clear my thoughts and gives me time to calm down. i get nervous sometimes so when i have a clear headspace, i can think a little better! if you want me to read over it or help, i can!

i'm yugi, btw.
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-17 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
my apologies, i didn't think that through. i was wanting to help!
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-20 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
i am currently in school to study language and game creation. i'd like to make my own game someday! i also work at my family's game shop.
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-24 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
both, actually, but I enjoy board games more!

with writing, is there a genre that you enjoy more?
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-05-26 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
do you have a book out? i'd love to read something other then textbooks, that's for sure.
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[personal profile] gandora 2018-06-01 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
thank you so much! I will definitely check it out!