dear abby...

[openhanded]

Surei Doushi 7/17 near Apprassage

hey everyone! it's been a little while, so I have two things for you all. the first is that I've written up everything we saw on the ghost trip I organized late last month. if you'd like to hear the details, let me know and I'll send over the document. the second is that I'm starting an advice column! I need things to write advice about, so feel free to comment with things you'd like help with. I promise I'll try my best to make it good advice. I'm definitely returning as a teacher next year and I need the experience! ...... and the bingo square.

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[playdolls]

Just because it's sordid doesn't mean I don't need advice.

I read the reddit post, that was fucking wild

[openhanded]

okay, I'll play along!

first of all: see a therapist or counselor. they'll help you with an action plan. your health is the most important thing right now-- more important than the guy you're with, the guy you're not with, and whatever's going on in your old house.

the next thing you'll want is an attorney. I really, really doubt that you and your husband could go back to the way things were after that line was crossed... so, you'll want to file for separation.

it's time to start over. get away from the things in your life that are dragging you down. when you rebuild yourself, you can stand on your own and you'll be so much happier for it.

bonkers man!!!

[playdolls]

Hey, you're actually not half bad.

[openhanded]

thanks!!

I... think.

[part of him isn't sure what just happened, tbh]

[playdolls]

But, I mean, aren't you going to moralize at me for having multiple partners or something? Isn't that what readers like to hear?