is it love?

[vendettastool]

Yoon-sung Lee 09/20 near Tisse

[ Let's just ignore the fact that he had a hallucinomemory of stalking someone with the intent to kill them, and that he fighting style has gotten a major upgrade. There is romance in the air and he for one is trying his hardest to not push them together while yelling 'JUST KISS!'. ] Poll time! If you had a BFF and they are kinda being all cute and sweet with another person who is cute and sweet back to them, would you: A - let them figure out that hey there's romance brewing B - send them a couple care package to give them a hint C - steal the BFF's phone and text their maybe would be could be date some innocent 'can we date?' texts D - lock them in a room and run away before they kill you Asking for a friend!

Comments

[thesettingsun]

E - stop trying to interfere with my BFF's love life before I no longer have a BFF.

[standalonehuman]

Variation on D. Invite both of them to a movie, and mysteriously get sick when it's too late for them to go home.

[kagepuro]

you can't interfere with love!!!!!!!

[daemonized]

[OH BOY]

Is there not an "Option E: Other"?

[anguinous]

That depends on the tolerance of this person, surely, and how well you know the other person. A mistake could disenchant both parties to you.

[penalizing]

c!!!
well as the friend on the outside
if i were the friend doing the flirting c would be the worst option

in that case i guess a would be best?

[judgementkazzy]

You should talk to your friend and ask them.
If they can't see it, be direct and tell them they should talk to the other person.

[ I mean it worked for him....... ]

[rygdea]

...It's David, isn't it?

Definitely not "C" since that's kind of creepy! I'm leaning on B.

[twelfthspark]

Anything but A. It's obvious they're not gonna figure it out themselves or you wouldn't be asking.

[vendettastool]

That's never going to happen.

[vendettastool]

Usually I don't go to movies. I have a home theater system that beats most theaters so the one will know something's up if I try that tactic.

[vendettastool]

Who says I'm interfering? I'm trying to pull a Cupid.

[vendettastool]

I forgot to put one in tbh.

[vendettastool]

One kinda already makes me eat mat on a daily basis and I'm not sure about the other one. I like to think they're a friend but you know how it is.

[vendettastool]

Last time I borrowed their phone, they made my laptop disappear and took my coffee.

[vendettastool]

Talk. To. Them.

I kinda did ask him if they were dating but he thought I was being ridiculous.

[vendettastool]

A lot of things are creepy. Standing in line can be creepy even.

[vendettastool]

They're stubborn and I think the one is just clueless or something. Either that, or trying not to give me any fire to fuel any attempt of matchmaking.

[judgementkazzy]

Yeah, just talking it out works best in my experience.
Is he denying the the other person likes him?
Try pointing it out like "person A does this for person B, isn't that romantic"
If they say yes, then explain "person B is you"

[rygdea]

Unless you're standing on line at an interment camp, that's less creepy than it is annoying.

[vendettastool]

I actually not sure though it sounds like that he thinks that there is no chemistry there or something? I think that it's also the fact that he kind of doesn't do a lot of dating and is missing some of the stuff that could go towards an actual romance between them.

I could try but idek.

[vendettastool]

Not really. I tend to get stuck in front of heavy breathers like they are loudly panting or something and it makes me think that they are planning on something stupid.

[judgementkazzy]

You should probably talk to him.
I mean, he could be right and they have no chemistry.

Actually, what worked for me too was a double date.
Except you sell it as a 'group lunch' or that kind of thing.
But it's obviously a date, you know?

[ Kiryu knows a surprising amount of stuff about setting people up... ]

[twelfthspark]

Probably clueless~

But you know, the more I think about it the more I'm feeling option C. Retrospec even gave you a built-in excuse if you need one by screwing up our messages. Isn't that nice of them? ;)

[cornets]

How dense are these two and/or they dancing around it?