02 ❀ it's almost february

[admiringly]

i know that a lot of crazy things happened in the city this month but can you believe valentine's day is in a little over two weeks?
do any of you have special plans? do you have someone you like? admire? have a crush on?
are you going to give your friends chocolate or cards?
are you lucky and dating someone that makes you so so happy?
if you're comfortable with it will you please tell me about them all?
tell me about the people in your life!
tell me about love!
tell me how love's changed things for you!
i want to hear about the good things that are happening in your life!

Comments

[admiringly]

i made this post because i wanted to hear about what people were going through! stranger or not

i think your memories can help you? if you think you're different people then you are but if you know the other person will get those memories too you can ask that person if they want to hear about them first?
that way you can talk about it together and work through it that way?
are the memories that bad that it'll hurt to be open about them?

i don't think there's anything wrong in hesitating or waiting but i think maybe you're so afraid because you feel really strongly
and that's ok
you have time to figure out what you really want to do

[blessmefather]

I'm laughing. I hadn't considered purposely bringing up the memories to them to talk it out. That would be one way to get ahead of the problem and it would be better than wondering when they'll remember and how they'll react.
That's very reasonable now that I think about it. Thank you for pointing that out.

I should try to talk to them about the memories. Then I'll decide what to do about my feelings. If we can work through this I'll take it as a sign we could work as more than just friends.

[admiringly]

it's no problem! i know when a problem becomes so big in your mind it's hard to think about talking about it
but i hope your talk with them goes well and it works out!
i'm rooting for you!

[blessmefather]

Thank you for putting things in perspective. I appreciate it.