If all of that really is completely unwarranted and unasked for, it's not being offered to make you feel better, it's being offered to make others feel good about themselves for "helping." Or perhaps to try to force you to feel better so they don't have to deal with you feeling otherwise.
There's a definite self-centeredness to it, either way.
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There's a definite self-centeredness to it, either way.