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♡ LANCEY LANCE ♡ ([personal profile] swags) wrote in [community profile] retrospec2018-03-04 08:12 pm

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ok so asking for a friend
got a buddy whos way too shy to ask himself so
imma do him a solid and ask for him 😏
so like
my buddy loves the ladies n who can blame him kno what im sayin?/ 😍😍😍
but like
he saw a man so beautiful 1 day
he started crying
like this man was sculpted by god himself
he was probably actually an angel
😭
is he gay/?
or jus like
an appreciator of a good lookin guy in a non gay way?/? 🤔
thesettingsun: smile (well it's a beautiful place)

[personal profile] thesettingsun 2018-03-06 06:21 am (UTC)(link)
[He'd be flattered.]

Honestly, pretending it isn't you is just going to make things worse. There's nothing to be ashamed of, and everybody discovers new things about themselves now and then. It's keeping the idea in your head that you definitely can't be bi, and this only happens to other people, that's going to make this a real crisis.

So no, I won't have the decency to pretend you're talking about somebody else.
thesettingsun: smile (while I've gone on my own way)

[personal profile] thesettingsun 2018-03-19 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
What is it about being straight that makes it an essential part of being "you"? Genuine question.
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[personal profile] thesettingsun 2018-03-19 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
For one thing, it's probably more like six years since you've known what straightness was.

For another, have you never learned something new about yourself before this?