[TEXT] It's a quarter after 1 I'm a little drunk and what were the next lyrics?

[devilsadvocato]

[Sometimes Mr. Nelson's students forget their teacher is on the network. This time Mr. Nelson forgot his students were on the network. This message brought to you by a stressed middle aged man drinking WAY TOO MANY shots late Friday night.]

Say you and the guy you have feelings for agree to stay just friends because even though he feels the same way about you he's not comfortable dating other guys yet. You two continue hanging out and get even closer and the next thing you know you're regularly meeting for movie night and having serious heart to heart conversations with each other. Best friends fuck yeah!

But then things start to get into a very very grey territory where you're doing things friends don't normally do. Like cuddling up to each other or spooning and you might have laid one on him once or twice. Also people start thinking you're not single because back in FEB your stupid heart stone convinced like half the kids you teach that you're madly in love with someone and getting married any day now- THEIR WORDS not mine. Sure you haven't said those special words directly to him but you're getting very serious about him and he keeps alluding to being very serious about you. And you don't want to force anyone to rush into something they're not ready for but you're turning down dates when others ask you out because it feels like you have a boyfriend even though you don't.

Where do you draw the line between "I'm respecting your wishes to say we're just friends because you're not comfortable with your sexual orientation yet" and "Buddy no matter how many times we call each other dude and pal it's crazy to say we're not dating at this point"????

I asked the bartender and they looked at me like I was insane.

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[dejerate]

[....What. Okay he might vaguely remember those stone things. But to be fair there was also a lot going on then. And he still sometimes forgets that Foggy is on the app. That things like.....this....happen as a result. Okay, so he is no tiny kid assuming teachers live at school or whatever without a life outside of the classroom but at the same time this was. Unexpected?

Yeah he was probably one of the oblivious students that never really picked up on the romance side of it. Not that it stops him now from poking fun or now probably deliberately bringing the subject up to divert attention from whatever lesson plan there was.]

I dunno? Relationships aren't exactly my specialty. But I assume he'll figure it eventually? You okay there, Mr Nelson?

[parodeity]

step one might be not telling 200+ ppl about a thing someone is apparently uncomfortable w and coming to terms with but thats just me
step two is maybe talk about it and apologize for failing step one while youre at it

[devilsadvocato]

[Somewhere mixed in with the onset panic following this message is a terrible temptation to joke reply with "what are Yuu doing here?"]

i'm fimee
i'm fine
don't worry
please forget that
i'm going to delte it in a second
don't forget your homework on monday

[NAILED IT]

[devilsadvocato]

shiT
how long has it been since I posted this
how do you delete things on this app
i'm a fuckking jerk what was i thinking
you are correct
this was beyond stupid

If some moron did this to you would you forgive them or would this thing be officially blown?

[angealwings]

It sounds like your conversation about it was quite some while ago. Have you tried talking about it again? I'm pretty sure that he'd rather know that he's keeping *you* out of balance.

Sorry, that may not be much help.

[thisloveisjustice]

Cuddling, huh? Regular movie nights? Sure sounds like you're dating this person to me?

Though, I suppose it depends on where you 'laid one on him.' Cheek or mouth?

private

[usurpers]

[ . . . ruh roh. thing is, he knows this story. he knows this story from matt’s side. ]

are you sober now?

[drydrown]

...The general wisdom of broadcasting this to multiple people notwithstanding, I'd suggest letting him figure things out on his own time? I would have been beyond irritated if someone had tried pushing me while I was sorting myself out. I admit I'm not a patient man, but this is still probably infinitely more complicated for him than it is for you.

So really, Nelson, just take a walk and let him work himself out. It'll happen eventually.

[meowchanics]

You draw the line wherever it says "signature" on the contract for the romcom movie rights.
Any other questions? I'm technically a doctor.

[He also teaches. He feels you, random stranger bro.]

[devilsadvocato]

no that helps
that's a great way of putting it. "out of balance"
it's been a while since we talked about labels
i keep letting this stuff happen without asking

i feel like such an a hole having this impatience or frustration
but i'm getting crazy confused
he's scared of labels but he'll do things a boyfriend would do anyway
there's a limit to what i should agree to right?
like it would be wrong for this to go on for months an months more
without some type of like agreement that this is that type of relationship
right?
otherwise i'm letting him have all of this without any committment
i don't know if any of that makes sense

[devilsadvocato]

i plead the fifth

[redarm]

is this gonna be on the final
cause otherwise i wanna bleach my brain and forget I ever read this.

Re: private

[devilsadvocato]

And full of regret. Yes.

[A groan and a forehead rub later the words "movie night" hit him. SHIT]

Eren I'm going to be straightforward.
Did I just out our mutual friend to you with that drunk post?

[devilsadvocato]

i should have found an anonymous advice person to send this to

Will it happen though
I keep wondering if right when the dust clears some hot ex is going to sweep him off his feet
Because I was just that friend that agreed to push the platonic boundary and it was fun while it lasted but bye

[Pray the bartender cut him off.]

[drydrown]

He's already said he feels the same way about you, or did I read that wrong?

[devilsadvocato]

yes
maybe?
long story short a 3rd party knew we had feelings for each other and brought it up in like the worst way possible and during the fallout from that mess he and I sort of talked about it
we didn't go into specifics like
I like you a little but things could change or
I like you A LOT and please wait for me

[drydrown]

...So through curiosity, this is the same person you were interested in back in February, correct?

[devilsadvocato]

yeah
that's why my students were yammering on about the heart stone aura

[Why would that mean something to Cumore? He never told him who it was.]

[devilsadvocato]

what?

[He's too drunk for this. Drawing a line where the signature is would be crossing it out right?]

you mean stop spending time with him?
what kind of doctor
are you shrink?

[drydrown]

I see.

[...honey

honey you weren't a subtle man when we were talking about murdock]

Well. I've never been one for relationships, they're all kind of a messy business. But communication sounds like it might be a good thing, if nothing else.

[devilsadvocato]

i'm sorry noah
i didn't mean for you to see this
your teacher is blowing it big tiem tonight

[You know your English teacher is really wasted when he doesn't capitalize, spell check, or use punctuation.]

[redarm]

yeah no kidding
next you might get exiled from the english teacher cult if you keep typoing too.

[devilsadvocato]

[This takes far longer to write than it should.]

OK OK
No need to kick a guy while he's down.
I get my share of relationship drama too. It's not just you guys.

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[blondferret]

Bloody hell. What has been going on between you and Matt? You're practically dating!

[thisloveisjustice]

technically, the fifth is not applicable in instances such as this. so no, you can't plead the fifth.