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Bolin | Good Ol' Fashioned Lava Boy ([personal profile] tuffguy) wrote in [community profile] retrospec2017-09-08 09:44 pm

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So here’s a hypothetical situation for all of you out there.

Let’s say that, hypothetically speaking, you have an older sibling. While this older sibling of yours did not raise you, they have looked out for you for most of your life. This older sibling also eventually became your legal guardian for two years.

And then you fuck up in a sort of big way, but you’re now a legal adult.

In this totally hypothetical situation, would you say it’s messed up if this older sibling of yours grounds you? Like, I mean, come on! You’re a legal adult now! You’re too old to be grounded!

Your opinions would be greatly appreciated.
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[personal profile] thesettingsun 2017-09-09 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
Hypothetically, are you still living with the older sibling?

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esperimental: (... idgi)

[personal profile] esperimental 2017-09-09 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
Not really. Older siblings have that privilege.

Of course the definition of grounding may differ from "no desserts or going out" to what I imagine is something else by adult age.

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browbeater: Which is not very. (This will end as well as I think.)

[personal profile] browbeater 2017-09-09 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
are you KIDDING me...

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fiddlestick: (exposition ahoy!!)

[personal profile] fiddlestick 2017-09-09 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
Um...I think that depends. Is your brother still supporting you? And how big was this mess up?

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originallutece: even in the bath okay sometimes you get good ideas in the bath!! (talk; science at any cost)

[personal profile] originallutece 2017-09-09 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Are you accepting responsibility for this mistake of yours?

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[personal profile] abovethefold 2017-09-09 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
This doesn't sound like a very hypothetical situation.

If hypothetically the younger brother nearly flunked out of college, he ought to be applying himself harder to his studies without needing to be grounded in the first place. Since he hasn't proven himself able to do so, removing distractions is a valid response.
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sivard: well tonight (⚡ when on the surface all is)

[personal profile] sivard 2017-09-09 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
If, hypothetically speaking, the younger sibling lives in his older sibling's house...

I'm going to go with no.
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anguinous: (☼ 3)

[personal profile] anguinous 2017-09-09 08:40 am (UTC)(link)
[ Yikes. ]

How does it feel to have this backfire?

[ Nobody thinks it's unfair, bro. ]

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stopbleeding: (GDFGWEWWWEW)

[personal profile] stopbleeding 2017-09-09 02:06 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe if you acted like a legal adult mako wouldn't have to ground you in the first place.

hypothetically.

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ladytakamaki: (don't need permission)

[personal profile] ladytakamaki 2017-09-09 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait
You're Mako's brother?!
browbeater: At least not in a row. (My girlfriend did NOT suck 37 dicks.)

[personal profile] browbeater 2017-09-09 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
[....... well, crap. he quickly taps out a message]

yeah, that's him. he's being overdramatic.

[and also... 100% not lying]

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blacksong: (i brought a present)

[personal profile] blacksong 2017-09-09 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
hypothetically speaking
you're getting your ass grounded


[But she IS that older sibling for her sisters, so she's a bit biased...]

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keystaff: (All of my doubt)

text;

[personal profile] keystaff 2017-09-09 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure my older brother would still ground me. Not that he would have to often, but. He is kind of over protective. A little.

But I know our situation probably isn't normal, and I'm still a minor yet. Though that's just going off of my own situation/experience. Others might not agree with it. Hypothetically, I mean.

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handstrike: <user name="handstrike"> (you'll make dad cry)

[personal profile] handstrike 2017-09-10 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
As the younger sibling you're never too old to be grounded.

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me_matey: (I see the way the salesmen stare into th)

[personal profile] me_matey 2017-09-10 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
my dude

this dont sound hypothetical at all

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thole: (well...)

[personal profile] thole 2017-09-10 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Well. I think the first question to ask, hypothetically speaking of course, just what sort of a mistake was made?

One is usually grounded for a reason, after all.

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tire: (very zen)

[personal profile] tire 2017-09-10 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
U PROBABLY DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG!!!
my big brother is like that 2!!! hes scary >:(

im cheerin for u!!! wat hypothetically happened???

ps: i looked up hypothetically and it didnt mean what i thought it meant, i thought it meant that sth happened
but it means nothing happened???
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handstrike: <user name="handstrike"> (how saucy)

[personal profile] handstrike 2017-09-10 03:49 pm (UTC)(link)
The older sibling likely has a good reason for it~

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mercurio: ❥ponponpon (015)

[personal profile] mercurio 2017-09-10 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)
lmfao what happened

@cloudstrife you're too cool for this btw don't start getting ideas

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imaginex: (♦ unsure)

[personal profile] imaginex 2017-09-13 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
Grounding is going a little far I think, but have you apologized yet? That tends to smooth things over.

Sometimes.

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skald: (seitsemänkymmentäyhdeksän)

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[personal profile] skald 2017-09-17 02:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, sorry. If you're living with an older sibling you're never too old to be grounded!

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